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How to Write a Eulogy

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One of the most important parts of a funeral that can help tie everything together is the eulogy. A eulogy helps us remember the times we shared with our loved one, starts conversations, and helps capture our loved one’s life story.  Don’t know where to start when it comes to writing a eulogy? That’s OK. At Trinity Memorial Gardens , we’re here to help you. Below are 7 steps that you can take to help write your loved one’s eulogy.  Interview family and friends You don’t have to feel like the complete weight of remembering your loved one is on your shoulders. Ask family members or friends to share their stories of your loved one. This process itself can be very cathartic, as the act of remembering and sharing can help in the healing process itself. Tell a Story (or stories) Everyone at the service will appreciate your personal memories of your loved one. Don’t worry about remembering each detail, perfectly; just share the details that matter to you. To think about a good story,...

Some Common Questions About Funerals

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  A funeral is a ceremony for celebrating, honoring, and remembering the life of a person who has passed away. While specific customs, traditions, and practices differ across different cultures and religions, all funerals serve the key purpose of giving the bereaved a special time and place to say goodbye and find comfort and healing in one another. It’s natural to have a lot of questions about funerals. Here are answers to some of the more common questions relating to funerals, funeral services, and funeral homes: What Does a Funeral Director Do? A funeral director is trained to anticipate your needs and help you decide on the details of your service. Directors can be caregivers, planners, organizers, and advisors all at once. They are trained to answer questions about grief, recognize when a person’s having difficulty coping, and recommend sources of professional help. Funeral directors can also link survivors with support groups at the funeral home or in the community.  C...

What Does Grief Do To Your Body?

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  If you have ever experienced the loss of a family member or loved one, then you are probably well aware of the emotional toll grief can do to you. But believe it or not, grief can also have several physical effects on your body that you may not recognize. Experiencing physical symptoms is common, and can have an enormous impact on your health if not recognized. Fortunately, just as quickly as physical problems caused by grief can come, they can also be treated and cured.  What are the Physical Symptoms of Grief? Though grief can impact your body in many ways, some of the most common physical symptoms of grief are:  Heart Problems. The heartbreak of grief can cause a literal heart problem known as “takotsubo cardiomyopathy,” or broken heart syndrome. This condition causes a disruption of blood pumped to a section of the heart, resulting in symptoms such as chest pain and shortness of breath, and mimicking the action of a heart attack. This can also increase your chances ...

Resources for the Loss of a Loved One

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  While moments of grief occur in everyone’s life, the death of a loved one can cause significant emotional pain and trauma. This trauma is far worse for people who have witnessed their loved ones pass on, for example, due to an accident or prolonged illness. If overlooked, grief could lead to deeper psychological issues or mental illness such as depression.   If you are experiencing grief, you are not alone. Trinity Memorial Gardens offers many grief and healing resources for those who are dealing with a personal loss, many of which are available online, 24/7/365. Whenever you might need support, we’re here for you.    Grief Support The grieving process can take so many forms; you don’t know how you’ll react or feel until you’re experiencing it. There are no wrong or right ways to grieve. All you can do is try to cope with your feelings in a way that feels right to you.   How you cope with grief is a personal decision, and some prefer to grieve alone or are he...

What Makes a Good Memorial Service?

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At some point in our lives, we’ve all been to some type of memorial service, whether it was more casual or a formal affair, chances are, some stick out in your mind more than others. So what exactly makes a good service? Usually, the most memorable services include personal touches, are meaningful, and uplifting. Here are some ideas from lovetoknow .  Having a themed service that represents your loved one. If your loved one was known for always wearing a certain type of outfit or pattern, you can request that guests, or those planning to speak, wear similar looks. This can make the service feel extra special and sweet. It may even add a smile to some faces if your loved one was known for wearing funky or interesting patterns or colors, sports jerseys, or certain hats and accessories. Instead of opting for a more traditional image in the program or up on stage, you can select a funny or silly picture of your loved one. If they had a great sense of humor, this may be an appropriate ...

Memorial Gift Ideas

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 When a loved one is faced with grief, a memorial gift can guide them to have some peace of mind. It can leave them with happy memories and something to honor who they lost. Losing someone you love is never easy, but with the help of good friends and some time, they can make the process a little less lonely. Finding the right gift can be challenging, especially when one gift can’t truly signify your love or the impact they made on your life or earth. Read below to learn about some thoughtful gift memorial gifts to help your loved one’s pain.  5 Thoughtful Memorial Gifts  Personalized Pictures: A picture is worth a thousand words. A photo of your loved one in an elegant frame with sentimental words can be meaningful. It might be hard for them to print out an image or even choose one to put in the frame, so taking this step can be helpful for the healing process.  Memorial Trees & Gardens: Combining nature with a memorial is a peaceful way to connect your loved one...

Our Story

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  When you choose Trinity Memorial Gardens, you get not only a beautiful service and funeral to celebrate the life of your loved one, but also a healing experience to help you grieve. The people behind Trinity Memorial Gardens are committed to helping you find closure during your time of need by supporting you emotionally and through the planning process of a funeral. As important as it is for us to get to know you to help you plan a unique and personal service to commemorate your loved one, we think it is just as important for you to get to know us and our story.   Established years ago, Trinity Memorial Gardens opened its doors as an independently owned funeral home, chapel, and cemetery. As the years went on and the business began to grow, we have expanded our services to now offer crematory services, and have continued to grow with the ever-changing world. Through our dedicated, thoughtful, and professional staff, we offer all the support you need during your loss, w...