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“I don’t know if I should go.” It’s something that many people say to themselves when it comes to attending a funeral. It’s a sensitive subject that must be treated delicately, and the rules of etiquette around funeral attendance can be confusing. Not only must your personal relationship to the deceased and their family be considered, but given the current state of the world and the ongoing pandemic, the state of your current health and the potential risk you pose to others must also be considered. Your friends at Trinity Memorial Gardens have come up with a quick reference guide for you to use if you are asking yourself “Should I go?” before an upcoming funeral.    When You Should Attend the Funeral  According to Funeral Wise , a general rule of thumb is that you should attend a funeral if the deceased is a close friend or family member, the bereaved is a close friend or family member, or you want to show support for the person’s loved ones. You should also attend the fu...

When it comes to our afterlife, there is no easy answer. While you may have indicated your wishes before your death, the ultimate decision comes down to your family. The decision is also affected by your budget, religious and personal beliefs, and other intangible factors.  The decision to cremate is on the rise. According to the Cremation Association of North America (CANA) , the rate has grown from 48.6 in 2015, expecting to rise to 54.3 by 2021. A recent study by Harris Poll, commissioned by the Funeral and Memorial Information Council (FAMIC,) reported that 65% of Americans were definitely or likely to choose to be cremated. The rise in popularity is often thought of because cremation cost is considered less expensive. While this is most likely the case, other “ala carte” options often increase the price, where it’s higher than a traditional burial cost. Both cremation and burial have pros and cons. We’ve narrowed down the pros and cons for you to make an informed decision:...

Funerals are a tricky business for everyone involved, especially if you’ve never been to a funeral or experienced a loss before. Many people deal with loss differently and expressing your feelings about death may be something you’ve never had to deal with before. Similarly, you may not know the right things to say or do when attending a funeral.  Though the guidelines for etiquette at a funeral are different in every culture and country, there are some general rules you should follow when attending a funeral in the U.S. Before you do anything you may regret, here are some of the biggest etiquette rules to follow when attending a funeral:  Do: Dress modestly. When attending a funeral, try to dress as conservatively as possible. A funeral isn’t the place to make a fashion statement, and you shouldn’t be trying to attract any attention to yourself. The dress code for funerals is typically business casual, so dress nicely and respectably, without going over the top. No sweats or f...

One of the most important parts of a funeral that can help tie everything together is the eulogy. A eulogy helps us remember the times we shared with our loved one, starts conversations, and helps capture our loved one’s life story.  Don’t know where to start when it comes to writing a eulogy? That’s OK. At Trinity Memorial Gardens , we’re here to help you. Below are 7 steps that you can take to help write your loved one’s eulogy.  Interview family and friends You don’t have to feel like the complete weight of remembering your loved one is on your shoulders. Ask family members or friends to share their stories of your loved one. This process itself can be very cathartic, as the act of remembering and sharing can help in the healing process itself. Tell a Story (or stories) Everyone at the service will appreciate your personal memories of your loved one. Don’t worry about remembering each detail, perfectly; just share the details that matter to you. To think about a good story,...

  If you have ever experienced the loss of a family member or loved one, then you are probably well aware of the emotional toll grief can do to you. But believe it or not, grief can also have several physical effects on your body that you may not recognize. Experiencing physical symptoms is common, and can have an enormous impact on your health if not recognized. Fortunately, just as quickly as physical problems caused by grief can come, they can also be treated and cured.  What are the Physical Symptoms of Grief? Though grief can impact your body in many ways, some of the most common physical symptoms of grief are:  Heart Problems. The heartbreak of grief can cause a literal heart problem known as “takotsubo cardiomyopathy,” or broken heart syndrome. This condition causes a disruption of blood pumped to a section of the heart, resulting in symptoms such as chest pain and shortness of breath, and mimicking the action of a heart attack. This can also increase your chances ...

  While moments of grief occur in everyone’s life, the death of a loved one can cause significant emotional pain and trauma. This trauma is far worse for people who have witnessed their loved ones pass on, for example, due to an accident or prolonged illness. If overlooked, grief could lead to deeper psychological issues or mental illness such as depression.   If you are experiencing grief, you are not alone. Trinity Memorial Gardens offers many grief and healing resources for those who are dealing with a personal loss, many of which are available online, 24/7/365. Whenever you might need support, we’re here for you.    Grief Support The grieving process can take so many forms; you don’t know how you’ll react or feel until you’re experiencing it. There are no wrong or right ways to grieve. All you can do is try to cope with your feelings in a way that feels right to you.   How you cope with grief is a personal decision, and some prefer to grieve alone or are he...

  When you choose Trinity Memorial Gardens, you get not only a beautiful service and funeral to celebrate the life of your loved one, but also a healing experience to help you grieve. The people behind Trinity Memorial Gardens are committed to helping you find closure during your time of need by supporting you emotionally and through the planning process of a funeral. As important as it is for us to get to know you to help you plan a unique and personal service to commemorate your loved one, we think it is just as important for you to get to know us and our story.   Established years ago, Trinity Memorial Gardens opened its doors as an independently owned funeral home, chapel, and cemetery. As the years went on and the business began to grow, we have expanded our services to now offer crematory services, and have continued to grow with the ever-changing world. Through our dedicated, thoughtful, and professional staff, we offer all the support you need during your loss, w...