What Makes a Good Memorial Service?


At some point in our lives, we’ve all been to some type of memorial service, whether it was more casual or a formal affair, chances are, some stick out in your mind more than others. So what exactly makes a good service? Usually, the most memorable services include personal touches, are meaningful, and uplifting. Here are some ideas from lovetoknow


  • Having a themed service that represents your loved one. If your loved one was known for always wearing a certain type of outfit or pattern, you can request that guests, or those planning to speak, wear similar looks. This can make the service feel extra special and sweet. It may even add a smile to some faces if your loved one was known for wearing funky or interesting patterns or colors, sports jerseys, or certain hats and accessories.

  • Instead of opting for a more traditional image in the program or up on stage, you can select a funny or silly picture of your loved one. If they had a great sense of humor, this may be an appropriate choice that really reflects their joyous personality.

  • Print programs that note a favorite anecdote of the deceased loved one. This can be a quote, story, or circumstance that truly captures their essence. It doesn't have to be serious or touching necessarily, just reflective of who they were.

  • Museums may offer rental spaces in certain areas or property locations. Many museum properties have beautiful rooms, as well as outdoor gardens, where a service may be allowed. If your loved one was a museum buff, this may be a nice place to remember just how special they were and are.

  • Libraries, like museums, may offer rental spaces. If your loved one enjoyed reading and frequented a certain library often, this may be a meaningful option for a service.

  • Parks often allow spaces to be rented out. Be sure to ask whether chairs can be brought in, or if you're planning on doing something more informal, note how many people they will allow in a given space. You can use picnic blankets and pillows to set a more casual tone.

  • Boats or ships can be a great option if your loved one had a love for being out on the water. Many boats can be chartered, or maybe you know someone who will allow you to borrow theirs for the memorial.

  • A camping weekend is a great idea for a small, intimate memorial. If your loved one liked camping or being out in nature, holding a memorial weekend where you all can remember cherished memories can be a really special way to honor your loved one.



Trinity Memorial Gardens is here for you during the difficult time of losing a loved one. We are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. All you need to do is call us at (727) 376-7824 or contact us on our website.



Sources:

https://dying.lovetoknow.com/Memorial_Service_Ideas


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