The Dos and Don'ts of Cemetery Etiquette

Everyone who has ever spent time at a cemetery knows that there are certain things you should do and things you shouldn’t. Whether it is the kind of flowers to bring, or how to behave when mourning the loss of a loved one, these Dos and Don'ts can make all the difference between having a great visit or an awkward one. In this blog post we will go over some dos and don'ts for visiting cemeteries so that your experience is respectful, memorable, and enjoyable!

• The first and most obvious rule is to never litter. It may be tempting to throw that wrapper or piece of gum on the ground, but it's just disrespectful for someone who has made a huge contribution to your life. Make sure you have a trash bag handy so that you can properly discard anything when finished with it!

• Keep children in check and set rules before you visit a cemetery. It's never too early to teach your children the importance of respecting cemeteries and other people who have passed on.

• Keep a respectful distance from any gravestones or headstones that you are near, even if it means standing in one spot for an extended period of time as you take in all the names and dates.

• Make sure you read and follow the cemetery rules before you visit a cemetery. Some cemeteries are more strict than others, so it's important to check out the rules before your visit and follow them while there

• Respect any flowers or other items that have been left in front of headstones or gravestones. Do not take these unless they're given freely by someone who is authorized.

• Follow the roadways and do not drive on the grass . The roads are there for a reason.

• Leave your car doors unlocked and do not leave any valuables in the car. It's best to avoid noisy cell phones or other electronics that can disturb people nearby, too

• Do not touch anything on a grave marker unless you're wearing gloves (for example, if someone has left flowers).

• Try not to remain in the cemetery after dark, especially if you are alone.

• Do not use any photos from the cemetery without the permission of whoever photographed them.

• If pets are allowed at the cemetery make sure your pet is leashed and quiet.

• It's always a good idea to wear comfortable clothes when visiting a cemetery because it can be an emotional experience.

There are a few things you should always keep in mind when visiting the grave of someone who has passed away. This will make your trip to pay respects more meaningful for both yourself, as well as those mourning their loss. At Trinity Memorial Gardens, we pride ourselves on our ability to help you through the funeral planning process. We will give you the care, relief, and space you need while you process your grief, and we’ll take care of planning the service. From planning the memorial service to the small details like flowers and gifts, we’ll make sure the funeral honors your loved one’s life in a way they would be proud of. Visit our website to send us a note or give us a call at (813) 920-4241 or (727) 376-7824.